Words from a fiery Aries
As an Aries lady, I can attest to this message for sure. Many clients are shocked when I tell them how I am a fire sign because I bring a calm and grounded energy to them in sessions.
I explain to them how over the years of doing deep healing and therapy work for myself, that I have learned to tame my fire in MOST situations. 😜🤙🏼
My fire burns deeply with passion for everything in life, but that doesn’t excuse my fire coming out if frustrated. My clients claim they can’t even imagine me angry. I lovingly laugh and say I’ll always be a Jew from NY. I have that edge and always will.
Do I sometimes say shit and instantly regret it? Sure. But humility is gold and it’s so freeing to just heavily sigh and come back to that person and say, “Ok. I could have done better and I’m sorry. How can I repair? Are YOU ok?” Sometimes the person receives me with love and it’s light and wonderful.
Abusive narcissists on the other hand, will use my vulnerability to twist for their own sick agenda. Silly Narcissists. I don’t play that way. Insecure individuals may not know how to respond. The response is none of my business, though. I did my part.
I can have an edge and still show up as love. I can look someone in the eyes and calmly say, “What you just did/said hurt my heart and I will never tolerate that again.”
I now set my boundaries and stick to them accordingly. Do you struggle with this or you, too, can navigate your dragon fire? Just because I was born a fire sign, doesn’t mean that I get a free pass to burn people or lash out because it’s in my astrological nature.
I take pride in being able to direct my fire (most of the time 🤣😜🤙🏼) in appropriate situations. My business, the bedroom and getting shitskies done efficiently.
If you don’t want your astrological sign to dictate your relationships, reactions and responses, let me know. I get it and I’d love to hold space to help you better navigate all of it.
If you need a therapist, mentor or hypnotherapist to work through this stuff, call me.
If you need a grounding meditation, check out my guided meditation designed special for you during this scary time of anti-semitism: youtube video
If you need group support, email me to join my free Jewish therapist support group. Half is processing and the other half is my meditation.
Much love,
Fiery Michelle
